I help Christian women with their partner picking.
I’m Becca, a licensed counselor in Minnesota.
I help individuals be healthy, so that marriages can be healthy, so that children can be healthy and the cycle can repeat itself. I am passionate about helping people live life to the fullest. I’m also passionate about marriage. I think marriage can be a beautiful gift from God. I am grateful for the benefits that marriage provides me. If you’re single, I’d be happy to help you make sure you’re healthy so you can attract a healthy partner. If you’ve already picked your partner and are looking for premarital counseling, I could provide that for you. I’m a certified Prepare-Enrich Facilitator. This means I’d use the Prepare-Enrich assessment you’d take to guide your premarital counseling.
Let me help you with your partner picking.
I’ll explain. I did not do a good job picking a partner many years ago. I was telling my therapist at the time that I was disappointed in the relationship I was in with my fiancé. She told me if I was already disappointed in the relationship, it wasn’t going to get better just because we got married. That was when the light bulb went off in my head and I knew what I had to do. I broke up with him and called off the wedding, about a month and a half before the big day. People called me brave. I’m so glad I was brave and wise to end a relationship because it wasn’t a good fit for me. I’m glad I didn’t care what people thought; I just did what was best for me.
Counseling
I provide individual counseling and premarital counseling to couples who live in MN, in person and/or virtually.
Blog
Read some resources and posts about healthy boundaries, dating, relationships, and marriage.
Speaking
I speak about how to have healthy boundaries, dating, relationships and marriages. I speak about abstinence (the benefits of saving sex for marriage). I speak about how to manage anxiety in healthy ways.